100 Questions to Ask a Girl Over Text (Best List)

Asking a girl questions can show your interest. It starts conversations. And keeps the girl engaged in the potential of falling in love with you. Women love to be asked questions about their day, their life and feel important in general. When looking for questions to ask a girl over text, this is the definitive resource. Use the questions below as a guide for gathering ideas on what to text the woman or girl that's important to you in your life.

These types of questions act as conversation starters. They often lead to a deeper, more meaningful discussion. And can start a conversation about nearly anything.

Ready to text a girl a question that will make her fall in love with you?

Questions to Ask a Girl Over Text

Best questions to ask a girl over text (great for a girl that you like romantically).

Flirty Questions

Flirty questions to ask a girl over text.

Do you want me to tell you what I find cute about you?

Would you like to know the moment I found you cute/attractive?

Do you know the moment that I decided that I had a crush on you?

If you could choose anywhere to go on our first date, where would you go?

What's something you really find attractive in a guy?

Would you rather go to the movies on a first date or have a picnic?

Are you looking for a relationship right now?

What's something you're looking for in a guy?

Where is your favorite place to have a first or second date?

What's one important thing that you must see in a guy you decide to be in a relationship with?

What are three things that you value the most in a love relationship?

Would you rather talk on the phone or text with a crush?

Do you believe in love at first sight?

Do you enjoy texting with your crush all day long?

If your crush told you that he was interested in you, would you ask him out?

What's the cutest date that you've ever attended (so I can beat it)?

Do your friends think that I'm cute and want you to date me?

Is a cute smile important to you in a guy?

What type of food do you want to have on a first or second date?

When is the last time you went on a date? Should we fix that?

Getting to Know Her (Personal Questions to Ask)

Interesting questions to ask a girl over text that helps you to get to know her. Often referred to as "getting to know her" questions.

    What type of music do you like?

    What movie is your most favorite movie ever?

    How long should someone wait before asking you out?

    What's something you appreciate about your personality?

    If you could go anywhere in the world, where would you go?

    What's something about your past that you wish you could change?

    What's something you do for fun on the weekends after school/work?

    How do you like to spend your free time when you aren't in school or working?

    What's one thing that you absolutely cherish in your life?

    Do you like to play sports?

    Do you play any instruments?

    What's something personal that you would want to know about me?

    What song would you want to play at your wedding?

    What's something that's extremely romantic to you?

    Do you have a bucket list? If so, what's on it?

    What's your favorite board game to play?

    What's your favorite genre of music/movie?

    What types of foods do you love/hate?

    Did you get good grades in school?

    Where did you go to school/college?

    Funny Questions

    Funny questions to ask a girl over text.

      If you had to go on a date with one celebrity, who would it be?

      When was the first time you #issed a boy?

      What's something that you absolutely hate about guys?

      What's the most fun thing you've ever done?

      If you had to represent humanity and talk to aliens for the first time, what would you say?

      Who is one person that you wish didn't exist on this planet?

      When was the last joke that you heard? What was it?

      What's one thing that you would love to change about me/yourself?

      What type of girl do you picture as my last girlfriend?

      What's one thing that girls have pet peeves about with boys?

      If you could talk to animals, what would you say?

      When's the last time you went on a really bad date?

      What's the worst time to get asked out?

      Have you ever gotten asked out by someone that you didn't like?

      What's one thing that girls love but boys don't know about?

      If you could define the meaning of life in three words, what would they be?

      How often should a boy text a girl?

      Would you rather be Daffy Duck or Superman?

      If you could choose any superpower, what would it be?

      What social media trend do you hope to die soon?

      Deep Questions

      Deep questions to ask a girl over text. Especially great for a girl you like a lot!

        Do you believe in God?

        What's your opinion of categorized religion?

        What is something in society that you wish could change?

        If you could change anything about our society, what would it be?

        What celebrity do you think is doing the world injustice?

        What are your personal values?

        How would you define your personal characteristics?

        If you had to describe "life," how would you do it?

        At the gates of heaven, what are you going to say?

        If you could talk to God, what would you say?

        Do you believe that God is a guy or girl?

        What are your current political views?

        Are you spiritual? How do you connect with the universe?

        Do you believe the universe has a planned destiny for us?

        Is it possible that two people can be soulmates?

        What do you think the meaning of "love" is?

        Why is it that our society has so many divorces?

        What type of values do you hope to instill in your children?

        How many children do you want to have?

        What do you picture your life being like in 10-years?

        To Keep Her Interested

        Questions to ask a girl over text to keep her interested in you (romantically).

          What's your day look like today?

          Have you had any problems at school/work lately?

          Are you talking to other guys, what are they like?

          What are good questions to ask to learn more about you?

          What song are you listening to on repeat?

          What's the last thing you put into the Google search box?

          Who did you recently follow on social media?

          What are you watching on TV tonight?

          What movie do you think I should watch tonight?

          Do you like jokes? If so, I'll tell you one.

          What's your favorite type of conversation to have with a guy?

          Would you ever skip school/work to go on a date?

          Would you ever consider having kids before getting married?

          When did you know that you had a crush on me?

          What's something that I do that you find really attractive?

          I'll answer three questions you have with complete honesty, ready to ask me anything?

          What's your family like? Do you have any traditions?

          When we talk on the phone next, what type of conversation would you like it to be?

          Are you doing anything fun with your friends this weekend?

          Do you have any travel plans in the near future?

author: patrick algrim
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Patrick Algrim is a Certified Professional Resume Writer (CPRW), NCDA Certified Career Counselor (CCC), and general career expert. Patrick has completed the NACE Coaching Certification Program (CCP). And has been published as a career expert on Forbes, Glassdoor, American Express, Reader's Digest, LiveCareer, Zety, Yahoo, Recruiter.com, SparkHire, SHRM.org, Process.st, FairyGodBoss, HRCI.org, St. Edwards University, NC State University, IBTimes.com, Thrive Global, TMCnet.com, Work It Daily, Workology, Career Guide, MyPerfectResume, College Career Life, The HR Digest, WorkWise, Career Cast, Elite Staffing, Women in HR, All About Careers, Upstart HR, The Street, Monster, The Ladders, Introvert Whisperer, and many more. Find him on LinkedIn.

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